say good ones to yourself
Within rest time, I look around at several friendster profiles. Just to know what’s up to my friends. I catch up some fact. I categorize how people describe him/herself into three: say good points, say bad points, and up to you lah (or know me first, and you will know by yourself).
No need to say which is better, it’s just my opinion.
I think that what we say something about ourself, manner, it will be beared in mind that we have that manner, although before we doubt about having that manner. Base this statement, so if we say bad point about ourself, our mind ‘automatically’ setting up that manner inside our brain, and ‘little-by-little’ become truly our manner. Or at least, it will be a justification to ourself to do something bad. For instance, we say that "I’m a lazzy", in the later if we doing nothing (lazzy) we will feel ‘comfort’ with this condition, because out brain has set it up, and just say to other, "don’t force me, I’m lazzy, you should understand it!".
It valid for good poin as well.
So, why said something bad, just say what your strength, [and keep in mind what your weakness to be evaluated in later whether we overcome it already). Say "I’m brave", and you’ll be brave.
But be carefull, it’s slightly similar to bigheaded at a glance. Handle it properly.
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